It’s genetic isn’t it, men are programmed to breed with big breasted women as they were best suited to nourish the children.
People do this for the same reason that a male peacock fans it’s feathers, to attract the opposite sex!
Notice they only moan when it’s the one that they don’t want to attract that have a look…and I’m talking about all people here Lou, not aimed at Women in paticular.
I’m not saying men don’t want to look (though I think the ‘genetics’ excuse gets pulled out too frequently) or that there’s anything wrong with liking women’s breasts. I just think people who stare are rude at best, and intimidating or worse.
Just a quick glance, then on with the day. Same for anything in life. I tell my kids not to stare, but nothing wrong with being curious, but a glance, then on your way!
I have aver just read this back and it seems very wrong! Ha ha
Genetics or not Lou, men do like to look at fit women and women like to look at fit men. Agree that there is a difference between looking and staring though!
But surely breasts aren’t sentient so how do they feel intimidated when I stare at them?
I’m sure I remember a “study” showing where people look when seeing another person. Generally the face but the boobs got a good seeing to for women and the cocnballs were the place to see on men. Oddly gender/sexuality of the lookee mattered little.
So s’jus nature.
Don’t feel guilty, just enjoy a fleeting glimpse. Remember to turn the flash off if you go full saville.
Sorry, what were you saying?
Looking doesn’t seem to be too much of a problem, it’s the touching that women seem to get angsty about.
Lou, when is it safe to look (ie what should we look out for in the ladies mannerisms that show that they WANT us to look)?
Originally posted by @Chertsey-Saint
Lou, when is it safe to look (ie what should we look out for in the ladies mannerisms that show that they WANT us to look)?
When they say to you, please look at my breasts, Chertsey. Otherwise, assume not.
Seriously, even if a girl is chatting to a guy they really like the look of, but instead of looking at their face they’re staring at their boobs - it’s hardly a turn on is it?!
Note. Staring at someone’s boobs is not the same as admiring how they look, or quickly looking them up and down/checking them out. Clue is on the word: staring. Staring = creepy.
Even if they do that thing where they push their upper arms to squeeze them together?
Originally posted by @Chertsey-Saint
Even if they do that thing where they push their upper arms to squeeze them together?
When does that happen to you, Chertsey - in your dreams?
Saw a programme once where they sent a girl out in a low cut top and secretely filmed the guys she talked to. They all had a good ogle when they thought it was safe.
During the course of the day I meet a few women and I think it is fair to say that breeding with every one of them isn’t really an option, and, therefore, isn’t always uppermost in my mind.
Nonetheless, deep in the dark subliminal recesses of my brain there is a region that has been genetically inherited from the time when my forebears lived in a primordial swamp – about a hundred years ago – that sends signals to my surface sensors, i.e. my eyes, telling them to look out for indicators that the woman I’m talking to is suitable breeding stock.
Like it or not, one of these indicators is their breasts. Too small could be a sign that they are too young or that they are a man; too droopy could be a sign that they are too old or not very good at selecting a correctly fitting bra; too large could be a sign that they might not be very good at running away from dangerous animals or that they might get stuck in door frames.
None of these things would be conducive to marking these women out as good breeding stock, and it is my opinion that a man should be allowed to take his time to weigh up and ponder these things, even if he doesn’t know the exact reasons why he’s doing so.
Lou Men like looking at womens breasts unless they like looking at mens breasts. if they are partially covered we can imagine what is underneath and if they are fuly disclothed we like it better. the time for a glance to an ogle cannot be defined and if the female in question did not have breasts neither would have accured
I have been known to ogle or even take a long lingering look at a females breasts with all the enjoyment it brought me and occaisionally her.
Hard not to stare at Pamela David’s bewbs.
There is something on Youtube called Crotch Cam where they show vids of girls ogling men’s packages on the tube. It seems we are not the only ones who stare!
It is not just a question of having breasts, it is also how they are displayed. Sometimes the wares are all out there in the shop window. What is a guy to do?
Windows are for licking.