Social Integration is not happening

Hi Barry.

You’ve unwittingly misrepresented me.

The Muslim barber didn’t wish anyone “Happy Holidays”.

He wished SoG “Merry Christmas”.

You can easily check this for yourself by scrolling up and reading both my post and SoG’s original.

Neither of us talks about wishing someone a happy holiday?

That was a careless mistake of yours.

The word Christmas is a contraction of Christ and Mass. Christ is a well-known figure in Christian (and some other) religions.

For a Muslim to use this term, it shows that he has understood the importance of the dominant belief system in the country where he lives, and, I’d suggest respects it.

It shows, to me at least, that in SoG’s example this Muslim barber has integrated himself somewhat into a society that is dominated by other beliefs.

If you agree that you’ve unwittingly misrepresented me, then the rest of your post becomes a fiction of your own making. So I’ll ignore it. Otherwise, debating with you becomes difficult.

It’s easier if we both try to stay on track. Feel free to make other points and I’ll debate on those if I feel I have anything to add.

I would just ask whether integration is perhaps a continuum that begins with Muslim barbers wishing people a Merry Christmas and ends, one day, with them “mixing blood”.

But then again, I’m not into satanic rituals.

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What if SOGs barber had his fingers crossed as he said “Merry Christmas” or if he muttered under his breath “enjoy it while you can, infidel scum, the caliphate is coming” (which he probably did)?

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Why the point out the need to point out a Muslim, it is someone, a person saying Merry Christmas/Happy Christmas/Happy holidays, not a religion. Anyway off to walk the hound.

Haven’t you purposely misrespesented me with the “mixing blood” quote when I hope you knew I was meaning integration beween people?

Stay on target.

Originally posted by @PhilippineSaint

Originally posted by @Bearsy

oh, wait, do i have to pay maintenance?

No Nanny state will do that for you

Is the alternative to a Nanny state, a Billy state?

And will they supply free amphetamines?

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Bletch, I would like to thank you for your continued attempts at the social integration of Barry.

It’s akin to observing a man trying to train a puppy that has been allowed to run amok pissing and shitting wherever it wants for far too long.

If, at some point, you give up I think we’ll all understand.

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I’m being continually prodded for reaction, McCarthyism indeed.

Are we loaning bazza to Walsall?

As you well know Barry, the need to point out that this person is a Muslim is to demonstrate that this one person, and countless thousands more like them around the world, have integrated perfectly well with those living around them of different backgrounds.

I am sure you are correct, everyone who says Merry Christmas is a fully paid up member of society, a person said to you Merry Christmas, his religion has nothing to do with it, note his religion not race, Saying Merry Christmas is nice though, I’ve said it a few times this morning whilst out.

Originally posted by @Barry-Sanchez

Why the point out the need to point out a Muslim , it is someone, a person saying Merry Christmas/Happy Christmas/Happy holidays, not a religion. Anyway off to walk the hound.

Well I can’t speak for SoG, but I’ll have a guess.

You created a thread about social integration.

In that thread you’ve done an excellent (truly) job of drawing the distinction (that definitely should be drawn) between culture and religion on this thread.

For all the academic differences, like it or not, our cultures owe a great deal to the religions practised in our society.

As a predominantly Christian society, or at least historically so, the UK has many cultural practices and traditions that stem from those religious practices.

Rest on a Sunday, Christmas working practices and gift-giving traditions, the ritual abuse of children by the clergy, etc.

So, for a Muslim, the traditions that shape his/her cultural interactions would likely be different.

No rest on a Sunday, no Christmas festivals, no ritual abuse by the clergy.

So, given that within a single generation* you will not see the degree of mixing of blood that you, ostensibly, want to see, what is the best we can hope for?

Well, I’d suggest that a step in the right direction would be that IF a Muslim, that had grown up in a religion and its inherently different cultural traditions, then went on to wish someone a “Merry Christmas”, it would be a recognition of a move to integrate into a culture (informed and shaped by a different religion) that was markedly different to the one in which he would have been immersed from birth.

That’s really what I believe.

It’s also what I believe SoG believes.

Now, on to your question of why SoG felt the need to point out that it was a Muslim barber.

I’m not sure if you’re playing games with me Barry, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt.

You see, this is the second time I’ve addressed this point, and, well, it’s really quite obvious.

You started a thread, the premise of which was that social integration is NOT happening.

SoG went for a haircut where a Muslim, who, had social integration not been happening, would have wished him good day, but instead bid him “Merry Christmas”.

Now SoG probably thought to himself “I’ll post that as an example of social integration on that thread that Barry started as I think it shows social integration IS happening, albeit probably slower than, ostensibly, Barry wants, but then again, it’s unrealistic for Barry to maintain the contradictory views of a) wanting social integration to happen more quickly, but b) believing that only mixing of blood shows true social integration, whilst c) not recognising that puberty and before that the gestation period are the main factors that will control how quickly blood-mixing social integration will happen.”

So there you have it.

SoG mentioned that it was a Muslim, because, well, it was a Muslim that demonstrated an act that proves to him (and me, but not you) that social integration is happening - albeit slower than you, ostensibly, want.

*For the record, I do not know how long a generation is.

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Originally posted by @saintbletch

*For the record, I do not know how long a generation is.

I know a man that does

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Is it just me that thinks it’s very odd to ask what religion your barber is?

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In one generation?

How do you know this? I think you’re presuming an awful lot there. You’re misrepresenting there, you’ve just said something but what does that mean?

Saying Merry Christmas/Happy Christmas etc doesn’t prove anything, its nice but like when Americans say have a nice day you have to take it as face value but you’re not really sure, and saying those sentiments concerning Christmas certainy doesn’t mean integration, I wish it did but they’re just words, for a start the person saying them doesn’t believe in them so he is saying as a course of manners which is lovely but means nothing and his faith doesn’t come into it surely?

I’ve been to Goa many times and celebrated Holi day but I don’t say I’ve celebrated with a Hindu I say I had a laugh with a person, same with my Jeweller who is Kasmiri and also a Muslim, he is a good bloke who is a Jeweller, I simply don’t see that in someone, if your good your good thats all that matters.

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Not if they’re holding a cut throat razor…

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Yes, I didn’t want to say that for fear of stoking the fires.

Originally posted by @Barry-Sanchez

I’ve been to Goa many times and celebrated Holi day but I don’t say I’ve celebrated with a Hindu I say I had a laugh with a person, same with my Jeweller who is Kasmiri and also a Muslim, he is a good bloke who is a Jeweller, I simply don’t see that in someone, if your good your good thats all that matters.

You have your own jeweller?

*Bletch - this might be the point where you want to give up…Bazza clearly has a different viewpoint to most other people on here about this…we’re just going round in circles.

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Well he is not ours ha ha but in Goa, on the Calangute Road, top bloke 99% of people going to Goa get Diamonds, Rings, Gold etc etc always gone to him.

That’s what I thought and look what the cunt did to me:

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