I think unfair to set an expectation that guys should give up their seat to women. A lot of guys are actually really sweet on the tube and when there’s a seat that’s theirs to be taken, and they offer it up, I always double check if they’re sure, because I think it’s weird they feel they have to, and I think it’s weird when a woman expects this.
Well, Lou, speaking as someone from a generation that had “ladies first” instilled in them, I don’t find it weird; and, as such, I always offer my seat to a lady.
And it’s sweet, don’t get me wrong. It’s a really nice gesture. But if you’re not from that generation, it feels odd because there’s no need (unless woman is in heels, looking white in the face due to period pain, or pregnant).
What was the generation, as it was certainly always instilled I me as well…I dont think its due to generation, I think it’s to do with common courtesy and politeness.
last time I was in London, I had to eject a disabled man from a seat meant for normal people. I threw the cheeky fucker to the floor and shouted at him to use the says meant for his type. They want it all, these disabled people. Seats with their names on and then the chance to use everyone else’s seats. Not on my watch, mate.