# One for the Dads

**URL:** <https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745>\
**Category:** Reasonably serious discussion\
**Created:** [15 September 2015 16:18 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745 "2015-09-15T16:18:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Sadoldgit](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/sadoldgit/32/44_2.png) [@Sadoldgit](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Sadoldgit)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 16:18 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/1 "2015-09-15T16:18:12Z")

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## Would you go out with your daughter like this? ![José Mourinho and daughter Matilde on the red carpet at the GQ Awards](https://discourse-sotonians-uploads.s3.dualstack.eu-west-2.amazonaws.com/original/3X/a/b/abf1a5c9ec580e01b8f9d817ab6315b7ba4c308d.webp)

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**Author:** ![TheCholulaKid](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/thecholulakid/32/17_2.png) [@TheCholulaKid](https://www.sotonians.com/u/TheCholulaKid)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 16:23 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/2 "2015-09-15T16:23:51Z")

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Mine’s only 6\* - so, probably not.

\*no rule 1 jokes, please.

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**Author:** ![Fowllyd](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/fowllyd/32/74248_2.png) [@Fowllyd](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Fowllyd)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 16:29 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/3 "2015-09-15T16:29:27Z")

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Alex Carter-Silk probably would. Or at least he’d go out with your daughter looking like that, if not his own.

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**Author:** ![Goatboy](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/goatboy/32/167_2.png) [@Goatboy](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Goatboy)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 16:45 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/4 "2015-09-15T16:45:09Z")

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If my daughter was going out like that, I would insist on going with her.

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**Author:** ![Coxford\_lou](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/coxford_lou/32/11_2.png) [@Coxford\_lou](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Coxford_lou)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 16:57 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/5 "2015-09-15T16:57:40Z")

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I’m not a Dad so does that mean I’m not allowed to comment on this thread?

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**Author:** ![Goatboy](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/goatboy/32/167_2.png) [@Goatboy](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Goatboy)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 17:14 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/6 "2015-09-15T17:14:08Z")

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Would you go out with your Dad like that?

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**Author:** ![Sfcsim](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/sfcsim/32/88192_2.png) [@Sfcsim](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Sfcsim)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 17:34 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/7 "2015-09-15T17:34:06Z")

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I would not go out with my daughter like that, I cannot stand the bloke!

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**Author:** ![Coxford\_lou](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/coxford_lou/32/11_2.png) [@Coxford\_lou](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Coxford_lou)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 17:36 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/8 "2015-09-15T17:36:44Z")

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Totally - nice dress.

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**Author:** ![Goatboy](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/goatboy/32/167_2.png) [@Goatboy](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Goatboy)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 18:07 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/9 "2015-09-15T18:07:42Z")

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> Originally posted by @Coxford_lou
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> > Originally posted by @Goatboy
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> > > Originally posted by @Coxford_lou
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> > > I’m not a Dad so does that mean I’m not allowed to comment on this thread?
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> > Would you go out with your Dad like that?
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> Totally - nice dress.

No! I meant if your Dad had a face like a smacked arse like Jose. 😉

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**Author:** ![SO5-4BW](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/so5-4bw/32/54_2.png) [@SO5-4BW](https://www.sotonians.com/u/SO5-4BW)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 18:21 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/10 "2015-09-15T18:21:32Z")

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If my daughter (aged 17) wanted to go out like that I might have a word - something along the lines of ‘hmmm - subtle!’

She would then tell me to piss off. Probably quite rightly.

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**Author:** ![Fatso](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/fatso/32/18_2.png) [@Fatso](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Fatso)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 18:42 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/11 "2015-09-15T18:42:49Z")

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I don’t have a tuxedo.

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**Author:** ![Fatso](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/fatso/32/18_2.png) [@Fatso](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Fatso)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 18:43 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/12 "2015-09-15T18:43:13Z")

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Actually, I don’t have a daughter either.

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**Author:** ![Nobby-Plumbs](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/nobby-plumbs/32/60_2.png) [@Nobby-Plumbs](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Nobby-Plumbs)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 19:03 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/13 "2015-09-15T19:03:42Z")

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Thankfully I don’t think my 16yo would dress anything like that, not yet anyway.

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**Author:** ![Intiniki](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/intiniki/32/9_2.png) [@Intiniki](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Intiniki)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 19:15 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/14 "2015-09-15T19:15:26Z")

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We had this debate in the office. She’s 18? She can wear what she wants. The men in the office and in particular a young guy who has a small daughter said he would not let his daughter out like that when she is the same age. I suggested she’d probably leave the house and then dress like that anyway. It was the ‘let’ I had an issue with. She’s old enough to know what she’s doing. Maybe she has some TV show coming out soon or perfume. Maybe it’s some rouse to get our attention. I found the comments he looked pissed off laughable. He always looks like that.

We are unlikely to be telling our teenage boys to not wear a revealing outfit.

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**Author:** ![Coxford\_lou](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/coxford_lou/32/11_2.png) [@Coxford\_lou](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Coxford_lou)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 19:18 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/15 "2015-09-15T19:18:03Z")

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Spot on Intiniki.

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**Author:** ![Ohio-Saint](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/ohio-saint/32/35_2.png) [@Ohio-Saint](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Ohio-Saint)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 19:25 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/16 "2015-09-15T19:25:47Z")

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At 18 I would let my daughter wear whatever she wanted, and still accompany her. However, I would have been very embarassed, but then again, my daughter would have known better than to put me through an awkward situation (As a father) than that.

Having said all that, fancy public outings (see what I did there) are a somewhat different thing than going to Sainsbury’s

Edit: As a father, during all the years prior to my daughter reaching 18, I have threatened guys of all ages, even chasing one down a high street…All completely against my normal character…When she reached about 18 I cut the umbilical cord. She does whatever she wants, and she is doing a far better job of being an adult than I ever did! Just 'cos they look all young and hot and stuff does not mean they are not their own people with good ideas, ambition and the will to do whatever will bring them contentment. Even if they like to get their booblies out once in a while. So what!? 🙂

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**Author:** ![Coxford\_lou](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/coxford_lou/32/11_2.png) [@Coxford\_lou](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Coxford_lou)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 19:41 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/17 "2015-09-15T19:41:35Z")

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Quite a conundrum for blokes. They like ogling other women’s breasts then suddenly want to get all protective of their own daughter’s.

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**Author:** ![Goatboy](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/goatboy/32/167_2.png) [@Goatboy](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Goatboy)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 19:43 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/18 "2015-09-15T19:43:50Z")

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I’ve already told my daughter that she’s not allowed to grow breasts.

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**Author:** ![Sfcsim](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/sfcsim/32/88192_2.png) [@Sfcsim](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Sfcsim)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 19:46 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/19 "2015-09-15T19:46:35Z")

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Evil things!

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**Author:** ![Sfcsim](https://www.sotonians.com/user_avatar/www.sotonians.com/sfcsim/32/88192_2.png) [@Sfcsim](https://www.sotonians.com/u/Sfcsim)\
**Post date:** [15 September 2015 19:47 UTC](https://www.sotonians.com/t/one-for-the-dads/2745/20 "2015-09-15T19:47:04Z")

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> Originally posted by @Sfcsim
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> > Originally posted by @Goatboy
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> > > Originally posted by @Coxford_lou
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> > > Quite a conundrum for blokes. They like ogling other women’s breasts then suddenly want to get all protective of their own daughter’s.
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> > I’ve already told my daughter that she’s not allowed to grow breasts.
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> Evil things!

Boobs, not daughters, well…

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